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Creating your own future

Updated: Mar 8, 2022

It is widely believed that abundance, prosperity, and "good" life are mostly reserved for those born under the "lucky star." Many believe that success requires either the inheritance of a rich family tree, where wealth, privileges and overall happiness are supposedly placed in the cradle, or you are blessed with some miraculous coincidences.

I can say that my story is based on neither of these two. I was not born into a wealth, but into a common working-class family with just enough means to meet the ends, but light years out of any luxury. We had the basics and that was it. And, I don`t believe in coincidences or just pure luck.

Throughout the years, I have learned how my way of thinking, my decisions, my visions, and my energy have affected the course of my life.

And so far, I have achieved exactly what I envisioned for myself, even more. Early in my life, I knew exactly how I wanted my family life to look like. I am very happy and fulfilled on a personal level because my marriage, my husband, my children, and my lifestyle are just what I wished for and dreamed of.

My career path on the other hand has been a challenge with a lot of searches and directions for quite some time until I changed my focus, made some life-changing decisions, and started to follow my inner guidance. Since then, my new vision has begun to manifest in a way that makes me happy. I 'm following the path that I really love, and I'm still dreaming.

How did I do it? I am going to share what I learned, but let me ask you first:

Do you think it is possible for you to create your own future or not? Do you really believe that positive things can happen to you? Do you feel worthy of being happy, respected, cherished, loved, and successful?

Let me just tell you straight away: If your answer is no, you are already blocking your chances to manifest your dreams from the get-go. Why? Because with your whole being you do not support your ideas or wishes.

While we might want something without a question, we often do not think it could happen because we do not know how to do it. Once we begin to think about how to get it, we become full of doubts and immediately reject the idea, because we cannot see any options in our minds.

For example, everyone wants to be rich. But the next thought is, "It's not going to happen anyway. Not to me. There's no way, because ... "(and a million reasons why not). Okay, what about you? Could you really believe (not wish) that you will really have a lot of money on your account and live a life without limits? And what is the real amount for you? I bet there is a difference between the amount you would like to have and the amount you actually believe you will get in this lifetime.

Doubts are the first obstacle in manifesting. We believe that we should know and predict everything otherwise this will not be possible. And, we could not have been more mistaken.

If we undoubtedly have a vision and believe in it, then Universe will support our energy and give us the opportunity to make the idea manifest.

We do not need to know how, or when. Like, I do not doubt if I order something online, I do not cancel and do not question how it will be delivered to my doorstep. I order and I know it is coming to me.

Next, if our emotions are predominantly negative, where we feel negative, scared, disheartened, angry, sad, jealous, hateful, panicked, we cannot create. Such low vibration energies are not in sync with the high vibration of creating. They just are not on the same level. These are different frequencies and, like with different radio stations, you cannot listen to another when you're tuned into one.

You cannot be a visionary, energetic or excited at the same time as being sad, depressed, lazy, angry, and so on. It really is not possible to do both at the same time.

Let's say, I want to write a book about my job so I can touch as many people as I can with the knowledge about what I do. I know this is my dream and I cannot wait to make it. I even repeat my mantra every day and talk about it all the time.

But if I don't believe that I can do it, because I'm convinced that my skills aren't adequate, my story isn't worth publishing, I 'm afraid of judgment and rejection, I don't have any money, I don't know any publishers, I don't think anyone will ever buy my book, etc. I allow my fears to take control. I get paralyzed and stuck, then frustrated and angry with gazillion excuses why I am not allowed to write a book. Suddenly, I need more time, more knowledge, more content, more help, more money, and this narrative continues forever. All seems to be against me, no one wants to help me, I see blockages everywhere, even accuse others, and my hopes of seeing my book in the shelves are gone. No wonder despite my burning desire I am not even close to starting. Kind of familiar?

Also, we can only receive and attract into our life what resonates with us, with our energy, our beliefs, thoughts, and actions.

To picture this, you should imagine yourself as a magnet that creates these invisible magnetic fields, and only certain types of people, circumstances, resources, objects are pulled by its power. Ever wondered what kind of magnetic field you 're producing? What and whom do you attract and repel?

It probably rings a bell by now that we must first investigate ourselves and lift our energy up to turn the whole situation around and begin to manifest our dreams successfully. Nobody else will do it for us.

When I accepted responsibility for my life, reached into my values, studied my true wishes, confronted my fears, and eventually developed a vision for myself, my dreams began to come true.


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My purpose is to help empower people on their journey of personal growth through energy healing and spiritual guidance with focus on finding inner root cause through channeling and connection with the energy world.

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Violeta Burja

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